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Thanks for the feedback. So maybe I am jumping the gun a bit with cutting them out so quickly: With that being said, I hear you on the need to make friends with people who are aligned with my interests and goals.
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As we had competitive businesses, I think the root of her malice was jealousy. Life is hard enough. Who needs a frenemy constantly dishing out hurtful criticism? I very much enjoyed your article and all of the comments. But it has become a burden on my mind and I am tired of being dragged down into her negativity.
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